Umumnya kaum pria kurang mengerti apa yang diinginkan wanita saat berhubungan intim. Mereka sibuk dengan tanggung jawabnya untuk membuat pasangan sampai ke puncak kenikmatan, sementara wanita justru mengharapkan hal lain, namun mereka agak malu mengatakannya.
Rasa bosan yang kerap kali datang menghampiri
kaum hawa pada pasangannya yang sudah lama menikah, serta posisi dan lokasi
yang itu-itu saja, kerap menjadi salah satu faktor pemicu fantasi seksual
muncul. Karena hanya dengan berfantasi saja yang bisa mengobati rasa bosan
terhadap pasangan.
Fantasi seks adalah salah satu sisi kreatif pasangan yang bisa membangkitkan
kembali gairah cinta yang hampir padam. Fansasi seks ternyata tak hanya dialami
oleh kaum pria saja, tetapi wanita pun kerap kali memiliki fantasi seks yang
liar, yang tidak pernah dipikirkan oleh pasangannya.
Wanita yang sudah lama menikah memiliki fantasi seks yang ingin diwujudkannya
bersama dengan pasangannya.
Bercinta di tempat umum
Biasanya pria memiliki hasrat menggebu-gebu untuk melakukan hubungan intim di
tempat umum. Ternyata hal ini juga tak hanya dialami oleh kaum adam saja,
wanita pun memiliki keinginan yang sama. Dalam fantasinya, dia ingin bercinta
di tempat-tempat umum, semisal perpustakaan, toilet, bahkan bercinta di taman
bermain yang kerap kali dikunjungi banyak orang.
Anal seks
Sebagian wanita cenderung ingin merasakan kenikmatan cinta yang berbeda dan
luar biasa. Salah satunya adalah anal seks. Kegiatan ini termasuk bagian
penting dalam fantasi liar mereka.
Klub stripstis
Di dalam klub ini memang banyak sekali puluhan wanita cantik dan seksi, bahkan
di antara mereka tampil tanpa balutan sehelai benang pun. Umumnya mereka yang
datang ke tempat ini hanya kaum pria yang ingin menikmati kemolekan tubuh
wanita.
Ternyata dalam alam fantasi wanita, mereka ingin datang ke klub striptis
bersama dengan pasangannya dan memerhatikan para penari berlenggok penuh birahi
untuk menarik lawan jenisnya. Kaum hawa percaya mengambil sedikit gaya tarian
striptis bisa membuat mereka lebih percaya diri bercinta
Thursday, April 25, 2013
Wanita & Fantasi Bercinta
UMUMNYA kaum pria kurang mengerti apa yang diinginkan wanita saat berhubungan intim. Mereka sibuk dengan tanggungjawabnya untuk membuat pasangannya sampai ke puncak kenikmatan. Sementara wanita justru mengharapkan hal lain, namun mereka agak malu mengatakannya.
Rasa bosan yang kerap kali datang menghampiri kaum hawa pada pasangannya yang sudah lama menikah, serta posisi dan lokasi yang itu-itu saja, kerap menjadi salah satu faktor pemicu fantasi seksual muncul. Karena hanya dengan berfantasi saja yang bisa mengobati rasa bosan terhadap pasangan.
Fantasi seks adalah salah satu sisi kreatif pasangan yang bisa membangkitkan kembali gairah cinta yang hampir padam. Fansasi seks ternyata tak hanya dialami oleh kaum pria saja, tetapi wanita pun kerap kali memiliki fantasi seks yang liar, yang tidak pernah dipikirkan oleh pasangannya.
Wanita yang sudah lama menikah memiliki fantasi seks yang ingin diwujudkannya bersama dengan pasangannya.
Bercinta di tempat umum
Biasanya pria memiliki hasrat menggebu-gebu untuk melakukan hubungan intim di tempat umum. Ternyata hal ini juga tak hanya dialami oleh kaum adam saja, wanita pun memiliki keinginan yang sama. Dalam fantasinya, dia ingin bercinta di tempat-tempat umum, semisal perpustakaan, toilet, bahkan bercinta di taman bermain yang kerap kali dikunjungi banyak orang.
Anal seks
Sebagian wanita cenderung ingin merasakan kenikmatan cinta yang berbeda dan luar biasa. Salah satunya adalah anal seks. Kegiatan ini termasuk bagian penting dalam fantasi liar mereka.
Klub stripstis
Di dalam klub ini memang banyak sekali puluhan wanita cantik dan seksi, bahkan di antara mereka tampil tanpa balutan sehelai benang pun. Umumnya mereka yang datang ke tempat ini hanya kaum pria yang ingin menikmati kemolekan tubuh wanita.
Ternyata dalam alam fantasi wanita, mereka ingin datang ke klub striptis bersama dengan pasangannya dan memerhatikan para penari berlenggok penuh birahi untuk menarik lawan jenisnya. Kaum hawa percaya mengambil sedikit gaya tarian striptis bisa membuat mereka lebih percaya diri bercinta
Satisfy Couple with Foreplay!
Satisfy Couple with Foreplay!
If you want to succeed in having sex and being attentive partner, you do have to give foreplay or stimulation enough to your partner.
Sometimes the question arises that
seem selfish. What's in it foreplay for men considering the Adam is
considered to always be ready? The answer is A LOT . Foreplay
is important to prepare so that each pair became quite aroused and ready for
intercourse. With foreplay, physically and psychologically prepared and
each pair being quite aroused. Furthermore, sexual intercourse can end
satisfactorily for both parties.
Most of the experts in the field of
sex foreplay actually states that the term is not appropriate because it does
not mean anything other than "warming". Certainly warming to
sex. Foreplay gives great pressure on men to have a penis that is able to
erect and tend to lead us to think that sex is just sex.
The proper term for it is
"loveplay". That is usually called foreplay period is considered
as a step that must be done by a man against his female partner to be ready to
have sex because men are considered always ready.
In fact, men, especially who are
elderly, very need and want loveplay before or during sex. As a
preparation for the actual intercourse, foreplay will be able to increase
sexual arousal when executed properly.
For better sex
In practice, actual sex can be enjoyed in a relatively short time or a long time. The difference may be as enjoy a meal at a fast-food outlets and when it hosted a full meal at a restaurant. Sometimes, sex performed 'Express' feels comfortable, enjoyable and satisfying. While most sex "luxury" it takes time.
In practice, actual sex can be enjoyed in a relatively short time or a long time. The difference may be as enjoy a meal at a fast-food outlets and when it hosted a full meal at a restaurant. Sometimes, sex performed 'Express' feels comfortable, enjoyable and satisfying. While most sex "luxury" it takes time.
One reason may be simple. Modern
life unconsciously always stuck in the mindset that makes this life's pleasures
should be enjoyed with a rush. And if it felt good pleasure, why should
enjoy it in a hurry?
One important thing, experts assess
the long-running sex is better sex because it is usually done with more
intense. "For many men, the longer sex, stronger orgasms,".
Another thing that is not less
important, longer foreplay which may help strengthen the marital
relationship."When men make more efforts to satisfy their partner, women
will be ready at the next opportunity to better satisfy their partner," To
make foreplay is effective, there are some important things to
keep in mind the men:
1. Increase Courtship
experienced pair usually has many variations of flirting techniques. Explores everything and start practicing increase sexual sensuality (sensate-focus) with the pair touching each body part without intercourse (penetration). It is very important to increase stimulation and train every couple to relax during sex. Sensate-focus exercises are also beneficial for men to overcome impotence problems and reduce anxiety by implementing a temporary ban for penetration.
experienced pair usually has many variations of flirting techniques. Explores everything and start practicing increase sexual sensuality (sensate-focus) with the pair touching each body part without intercourse (penetration). It is very important to increase stimulation and train every couple to relax during sex. Sensate-focus exercises are also beneficial for men to overcome impotence problems and reduce anxiety by implementing a temporary ban for penetration.
Exercises that couples should be
touching each other in different sessions starting from the face, the back, the
front and the last genital parts. This session is not intended for
massaging each muscle or even give each other pleasure. But to give a
valuable lesson and experience partner feel part of the body. This session
can be done during the first 20 minutes and avoid intimate relationships.
2. Trying softer
Many began an intimate relationship with a man in a hurry, too strong and too rough. "And she really wants three things more time, touch and talk,". There is Another important thing that should never be forgotten man when it hits his partner, the softness. But this does not mean that women can not be "boisterous" sexually. they just need time to achieve it.
Many began an intimate relationship with a man in a hurry, too strong and too rough. "And she really wants three things more time, touch and talk,". There is Another important thing that should never be forgotten man when it hits his partner, the softness. But this does not mean that women can not be "boisterous" sexually. they just need time to achieve it.
3. Part of the plan
Remember that sex begins in the brain. Try to apply as part of foreplay your daily plan. For example, your spouse's phone from the workplace. Tell him that you have always imagined him and describe what you want to do when I get home. When you actually already arrived home, you are correct and he is ready to do it.
Remember that sex begins in the brain. Try to apply as part of foreplay your daily plan. For example, your spouse's phone from the workplace. Tell him that you have always imagined him and describe what you want to do when I get home. When you actually already arrived home, you are correct and he is ready to do it.
4. Create atmosphere
is important that creating a romantic atmosphere during intercourse. Make the atmosphere of the room or rooms as comfortable as possible for example to light a candle or play music. Make sure the room temperature is comfortable when you're both naked. Turn off the cell phone, and if you already have your child lest the arrival of uninvited guests. A number of accessories are also certain to increase sensuality as foreplay. One of the most important is massage with scented oils. Wax, hair and makeup also may be useful for you.
is important that creating a romantic atmosphere during intercourse. Make the atmosphere of the room or rooms as comfortable as possible for example to light a candle or play music. Make sure the room temperature is comfortable when you're both naked. Turn off the cell phone, and if you already have your child lest the arrival of uninvited guests. A number of accessories are also certain to increase sensuality as foreplay. One of the most important is massage with scented oils. Wax, hair and makeup also may be useful for you.
5. Learning kissing
Kissing is one of the key elements in sex. I suggest to use your lips while caressing your partner's lips and skin. Do not let your mouth wrinkled, in the interest of the lips is softness. Always remember, too, that kiss is not just a meeting of two mouths. Your spouse is the continental body for your lips and tongue to use explores.
Kissing is one of the key elements in sex. I suggest to use your lips while caressing your partner's lips and skin. Do not let your mouth wrinkled, in the interest of the lips is softness. Always remember, too, that kiss is not just a meeting of two mouths. Your spouse is the continental body for your lips and tongue to use explores.
Monday, April 22, 2013
Secrets of Female Sexual Satisfaction
Secrets of Female Sexual Satisfaction
Some women have a
secret to be able to enjoy intimacy as a couple to achieve sexual satisfaction. You can imitate some ways women include the
following experts, to improve the quality of sexual intercourse with a partner.
1.Scheduled. Sexual intercourse
should also scheduled. It means you need to
design a romantic evening for two of the he could get sexual experience
enjoyable and satisfying to both parties. "Couples need to plan a romantic thing to be able to improve
the quality of sexual relationships and provide a pleasant experience,"
said Victoria Zdrok Wilson, JD, PhD, one of the author of The 30-Day
Sex Solution.
2. Mutual trust. attitude of mutual trust and provide comfort will appear in a
couple's relationship that would listen to each other. "You have to listen more actively than
the pair showed off their own feelings. Soon as you and your partner become
allies instead of enemies, your sex life will be more honest and more
excited," said Wilson Zdork.
3. Spontaneous. Couples who have sex satisfying, especially in these challenging
times when being a parent, often practicing spontaneous ways. Whatever time you
have, even 20 minutes, can be maximized to create intimacy and sexual
satisfaction gained lightning. "Think of a place
or time that makes sex feel amazing, do as well as meditation, could be
anywhere and anytime," said Sharon Gilchrest O'Neill, marriage and family
therapist is also the author of A Short Guide to a Happy Marriage.
4. Always communicate. Nobody can understand what you want, need, enjoy in addition to
communicating."Talk about sex when you're not having sex. However, you may
occasionally express what it wants to partner to achieve sexual satisfaction
during sex," said Gilchrest O'Neill.
5. Has limitations. For parents, sex sometimes provide challenges. Hence in the family also needs to be limits. Teach the children to understand the parents
privacy. Sacha Mohammed, the
mother of two children (14 and seven years old), always make sure the kids are
asleep while to spend some time alone with her husband. Children are also taught to have a habit of knocking on the door
as if there needs to parents. According Zdork
Wilson, each spouse must evaluate their environments and determine the optimal
conditions such as what can be created to get a better quality of sex.
6. Not a lot of reasons. Women who enjoy sexual satisfaction did not ask a lot of reasons
not to have sex. If you've got lots of
reasons not to have sex, try to look back, what exactly is your problem. If there were serious problems with a partner,
you should look for expert help to improve relations. With so sex life could be better in the
future.
7. Experiment. To be able to feel sexual pleasure, you have to find a balance. Do not stick with the conventional nature that
makes sex seem boring. Do not be too
excessive when experimenting thus reducing intimacy and comfort. Discover the ideal way for you. "Many couples who claim to enjoy the best
sex when not at home," says Zdrok Wilson.
8. Maintain physical. admitted sexually satisfied women when supported by good
looks.Keeping up appearances is not merely to please your partner, but rather
the personal satisfaction. Not only that, your
sexual desire is also influenced physically healthy. "When feeling unwell, tiredness, pain or
lack of energy you are also not motivated to have sex," says Zdrok Wilson. So, do whatever ways you can make feel sexy. Then see for yourself how the he'll always
feel attracted to you.
Source : KOMPAS.com
Saturday, April 20, 2013
Food Types Can Increase Passion Love
There
are some foods that are believed to increase libido passion :
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Chocolate, Perhaps
this is one of the common grounds why chocolate as a gift for lovers. The reason in sticky food-this was a
bit of sweet sticky unsure pregnant 'love chemical' which familiarly called phenylalanine. Want
to know what the function of the chemical elements? That certainly believed nutritious
phenylalanine improve libido. Not
to mention, this one favors snack once if eaten together with him. Delicious, sticky and increase desire.
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Shells, salty
foods are well known in the tongue. Understandably,
his name only seafood.But, forget the first taste problems. Just look at its use as an
aphrodisiac. Supposedly after
eating, your sexual desire will soar even terrible! Especially if the man that eat it. Oh yes, pregnant women are advised not
consume metal at sea, such as Pb (lead) that are harmful to the fetus. That's why, this animal is used as
sea-level indicators of pollution.
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Asparagus, If
oysters are very powerful to drive the male libido, others with powerful
precisely asparagus excite love the girls. What's
the matter? First, a vegetable
that is often touted to represent the symbol of the vital tool of the man! Second, asparagus appears rich
nutrition such as vitamin E, potassium, and phosphorus are not only ampuhp
boost of energy, but also bias add 'truth' of women.
-
Celery, Celery
is a type of plant commonly used as a complement in a vegetable soup. Turns out to invite other fragrant
aroma taste, celery is also a food source that has a content of sexual
stimulation because it contains testosterone, a hormone released through sweat
which can excite women.
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Banana ,Bananas are not only shape that always be similarly with
'arms' of men, also was a bit of bananas are believed to increase male libido
because it contains the enzyme bromine. In
addition, bananas are good sources of potassium and B vitamins like riboflavin
which increases the body's energy level.
-
Avocado, Avocado is rich fruits that folic acid helps protein
metabolism resulting in a lot of energy. Avocados
also contain vitamin B6, nutrients can increase hormone production and
potassium man who helped organize the thyroid female. The
second element can increase the male libido or female.
- Almond , almond
nut is the main source of essential fatty acids in a healthy male hormone
production. In
addition, the scent of almonds is believed to increase arousal in women.
Makanan yang Dapat Meningkatkan GAIRAH BERCINTA
ada beberapa makanan
yang dipercaya dapat meningkatkan gairah libido. Berikut beberapa jenis makanan
tersebut
- Coklat Barangkali
ini lah salah satu alas an mengapa coklat kerap dijadikan hadiah untuk kekasih.
Sebab di dalam makanan yang lengket-lengket manis ini ternyata memang
mengandung unur ‘kimia cinta’ yang akrab dipanggil phenylalanine. Ingin tahu
apa saja fungsi dari unsur kimia tersebut? Yang pasti phenylalanine dipercaya
berkhasiat memperbaiki libido. Belum lagi, camilan yang satu ini nikmat sekali
jika disantap berdua dengan si dia. Lezat, lengket dan meningkatkan gairah.
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Kerang Makanan ini
terkenal asin di lidah. Maklum, namanya saja hasil laut. Tapi, lupakan dulu
masalah rasanya. Coba lihat kegunaannya sebagai aphrodisiac. Konon setelah
menyantapnya, gairah seksual anda pun akan melambung dahsyat! Apalagi jika para
lelaki yang menyantapnya. Oh ya, perempuan hamil tidak disarankan mengonsumsi
logam yang berada di laut, seperti Pb (timbal) yang berbahaya bagi janin.
Itulah sebabnya, hewan ini dipakai sebagai indikator tingkat pencemaran laut.
-
Asparagus Jika tiram
sangat ampuh memacu libido para lelaki, lain lagi dengan asparagus yang justru
ampuh membangkitkan gairah bercinta para perempuan. Apa pasal? Pertama, sayuran
yang satu ini kerap disebut-sebut layak mewakili symbol alat vital para lelaki!
Kedua, asparagus ternyata kaya nutrisi seperti vitamin E, potassium, serta
fosfor yang bukan hanya ampuhp meningkatkan energi, tapi juga bias menambah
‘kebenaran’ para perempuan.
-
Seledri Seledri
merupakan jenis tumbuhan yang biasa digunakan sebagai pelengkap dalam sayur
sup. Ternyata selain aroma wangi yang mengundang selera, seledri juga merupakan
sumber makanan yang memiliki kandungan terhadap stimulasi seksual karena
mengandung androsteron, sebuah hormone yang dikeluarkan melalui keringat yang
dapat menggairahkan perempuan.
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Pisang Pisang bukan
saja bentuk yang selalu diidentikkan dengan ‘senjata’ kaum lelaki, pisang juga
ternyata memang diyakini dapat meningkatkan libido pria karena mengandung enzim
bromelain. Selain itu, pisang juga sumber potassium dan vitamin B seperti
riboflavin yang meningkatkan tingkat energi tubuh.
-
Alpukat Alpukat
merupakan jenis buah yang kaya folic acid yang membantu metabolisme protein
sehingga menghasilkan banyak energi. Alpukat juga mengandung vitamin B6,
nutrisi yang dapat meningkatkan produksi hormone pria dan potassium yang
membantu mengatur thyroid perempuan. Kedua elemen ini dapat meningkatkan libido
lelaki maupun perempuan.
-
Almond Kacang almond
merupakan sumber utama asam lemak yang penting dalam produksi hormone pria yang
sehat. Selain itu, aroma almond diyakini dapat meningkatkan rangsangan pada
perempuan.
Friday, April 19, 2013
Sex & Premature Ejaculation Problems
However, do not always go
according to sexual desire. There
are times when husbands exposed to sexual dysfunction problems such as arousal
disorder, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and other.
According to Prof. DR. Dr.. Wimpie Pangkahila, Sp. And,
a physician expert Andrology and Sexology, "sexual health problem that is
often experienced by men is sexual dysfunction and sexually transmitted
diseases. Sexual
dysfunction is often premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. "
Premature ejaculation is very
common. Recent
research shows that 1
out of 3 men who were sexually active (33%) suffer from premature ejaculation . Premature
ejaculation can occur in men of any age although it is more common in young men
with different backgrounds of life.
Sexual dysfunction is a
terrible scourge for men. What
man does not want to say "mighty"? If
the problem is not being addressed can result in disruption of domestic
harmony. Remember
the saying goes, " Sex is not
everything, but without sex, everything will be nothing. "
What is
Premature Ejaculation?
The term premature ejaculation
may not be as well known as erectile dysfunction. Men
who experience ejaku! Early ation still able to achieve an erection and sexual
intercourse although ejaculation occurs too fast.
Prof Wimpie Pangkahila
explained that there are actually some sense espoused by experts about
premature ejaculation, namely:
1.
Limitation of premature ejaculation based on a specific time when
ejaculation occurs.
2.
Premature ejaculation is determined by how many times a man is
able to make a move during intercourse before ejaculation.
3.
Premature ejaculation is defined as the inability to hold
ejaculation until his partner reaches orgasm.
4.
Premature ejaculation is determined by whether or not a man is
able to control ejaculation to occur in accordance with her wishes.
Based on the understanding that
the fourth, it means the inability to control premature ejaculation is
ejaculation that occurs within a short time, which is not in accordance with
her wishes, while the occurrence of ejaculation is ejaculation of semen out of
a sudden that marks the climax for men. The
fourth notion that now seems more acceptable.
Some
Causes of Premature Ejaculation
Premature ejaculation does not
come naturally to him, but there is cause. "There
are psychological causes such as prolonged stress, habits like fast finish when
having sex," said Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila.
Not only that, further Wimpie
Pangkahila Prof who is a professor in the Faculty of Medicine, Udayana
University explains, "There are physical causes insufficiency primarily
inhibits serotonin functioning."
Disruption events that govern
neural control ejaculation is also thought to be the cause of premature
ejaculation. Unfortunately,
men with erectile dysfunction are generally experiencing premature
ejaculation.Conversely, men with premature ejaculation may eventually suffer
from erectile dysfunction.
Lightweight Weighing Premature Ejaculation
Lightweight Weighing Premature Ejaculation
Turns premature ejaculation
varies. Premature
ejaculation can be divided into three types based on the level of severity,
namely: mild premature ejaculation, premature ejaculation moderate, and severe
premature ejaculation.
Type
Premature Ejaculation
|
Definition
|
Light
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Ejaculation occurs after
several short friction.
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Moderate
|
Ejaculation occurs after the
penis into the vagina.
|
Weight
|
Ejaculation occurs so penis
touching the outer female genitals.
|
Ejaculation occurs before the
penis touches the outer female genitals.
|
Whatever type of premature
ejaculation is experienced by both men and women will feel dissatisfied because
ejaculation occurs in a very short time out of the will so that the sexual
relationship had to end.
impact premature ejaculation
impact premature ejaculation
Want to heavy or light, which
would lead to premature ejaculation sexual intercourse took place not in
harmony. On
premature ejaculation, even disharmony due to dissatisfaction on both sides. Men who experience premature ejaculation feel dissatisfied because
the sexual relationship lasted very briefly in spite of himself.
Although able to reach orgasm,
men who experience premature ejaculation also felt very disappointed because it
was not able to give sexual satisfaction to their partners. Especially if their partner expressed disappointment in the form
of reactions to blame the patient.
"Men who experience
premature ejaculation often experience stress, lack confidence, low
self-esteem, and embarrassment to the spouse. Prolonged
erectile dysfunction may occur. Partner
must have been disappointed, dissatisfied, irritated, angry, and finally
experiencing sexual dysfunction such as loss of sexual desire, "said Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila.
Furthermore, the reaction is a
feeling of fear or worry every time they have sex. This feeling will only worsen the situation of premature
ejaculation. If
this situation continues, then in the end he was able to experience erectile
dysfunction.
Women who have experienced
premature ejaculation spouse generally can not reach orgasm because of a sexual
relationship soon ended. Disappointment
that arise can then be turned into annoyance with fear every time they have
sex. Further result could be loss of
sexual desire and dyspareunia (pain during intercourse occurred).
Premature
ejaculation makes Infertile?
Circulating in the community
have the wrong notion that when ejaculation happens too quickly, so that means
sperm can not impregnate disturbed. Barriers
pregnant again a new problem that exacerbated the problems arising from
premature ejaculation.
Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila regrets the wrong myth about premature
ejaculation, "Premature ejaculation is often regarded as fertility
disorders, but it is not so. Premature
ejaculation is considered as a dilute sperm, but it is not clear what was meant
by the term "dilute". "
"Premature ejaculation no
relationship with fertility. So
pregnancy can happen origin sperm into the vagina.But in severe premature ejaculation,
ejaculation occurs outside the vagina, pregnancy does not occur, "said
Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila.
If it turns out men with
premature ejaculation also impaired sperm, it means there are two separate
disorders, not a cause and effect.
Sperm disorders can be caused
by many things, including due to infection in the testicles or other parts of
the reproductive system, testosterone deficiency, dilation of blood vessel
walls around the testicles, and vitamin deficiencies.
How to
overcome premature ejaculation?
First of all it is advised to
do sex therapy. If
sex therapy does not work, then do the second way is using drugs. Cure for premature ejaculation is ejaculation control efficacious
drugs. There are several types of
medications that can control ejaculation.
"It depends on the cause. Because many causes related to serotonin function, it is necessary
to regulate the function of serotonin drugs, said Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila.
Moreover, Prof. Wimpie explains, "Drugs for example, group SSRIs (Selective
Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors). However,
note the side effects, because the drug is not a drug that is sold freely.
"But given the drug has side effects, then its use should be under the
supervision of a physician.
As described above, there are
drugs to control ejaculation. If
premature ejaculation is caused by erection problems, then to improve erectile
function, ejaculation can be slowed. So
useful erectile dysfunction drug that premature ejaculation is caused by
erection problems.
Another is the way of treatment
by surgery to the nerves that control the occurrence of ejaculation. But the third way, although never done in a particular country,
until now it was not popular and not widely used.
"Regarding supplements,
many of which claim to cure premature ejaculation but without the results of
clinical trials," said Prof. Wimpie
Pangkahila. So
if you want to try taking supplements, make sure the supplement has evidence
based on clinical trials that have been done.
"If there are test results
with significant results, it is necessary to analyze what content in it. And must know whether the researcher is competent to do so. If only the supplement only, such as vitamins, may not be able to
cope with premature ejaculation, "said Prof. Wimpie
Pangkahila.
Try Sex
Theraphy
Sex therapy, which is done to
control ejaculation is done with the help of his wife. Basically the way this is done through several steps.
1.
Wife masturbating on husbands who suffer from premature
ejaculation with husband lying supine position, until the husband feels like
orgasm and ejaculation.
2.
When the husband feels like orgasm and ejaculation, the wife made
an emphasis on the penis using the thumb, index and middle fingers, for a few
seconds to prevent the occurrence of ejaculation.
3.
Wife to husband to masturbate erection sufficient, then
immediately put it into the vagina without the wife's position at the top of
the motion. When
her husband was going to ejaculate, the wife immediately lifted her and put
pressure on the penis like on the second step. Further
stimulation with masturbation repeated again, and continued with sexual
intercourse as above.
4.
Performed after a few days doing the above exercise. At this step, the husband was allowed to exert pressure to
maintain erection during sexual intercourse with the wife's position at the
top.
5.
Done when the husband was better able to control ejaculation. At this step a couple can have sexual relations with the side
position. If
this place is to hold ejaculation husband, then sexual intercourse can be done
in the husband's position at the top.
The exercise is expected to be
performed during the 6-12 months after that, and whenever needed. But this way is not always easy to do for several reasons. First, the closure of the man to his wife. Second, the lack of communication and cooperation of husband and
wife in sexual problems. Third,
feeling reluctant or lazy to do the exercises because having to waste time and
considered impractical.
Kegel
Exercises Men Can Also
For those who avoid drugs,
Prof. Wimpie advise against trying to
do Kegel exercises or sex therapy with couples. Gymnastics
or exercises known as Kegel exercises for the pelvic muscles to improve the quality
of sexual intercourse.
Kegel is a pelvic floor muscle
exercises Puboccoccygeus (PC) or Pelvic Floor Muscle which was originally used
for therapy in women who are not able to control the release of urine. PC muscle is called muscle 'sexual' because it supports the
vagina, penis, uterus, rectum, and other related parts of the body such as
sexual function and ejaculation orgasm in both women and men.
To find the location of the PC
muscle, you can stop the urine when you urinate. Try
to stop urinating or three times so that you can determine the position of the
PC muscle.
Kegel exercise is introduced by
Dr.. Arnold Kegel, a gynecologist,
since 1945. This
exercise is a series of movements that serve to train the PC muscle
contractions multiple times in order to increase muscle tone and contraction. This exercise shows new benefits after a minimum of six weeks.
While for men it turns out
Kegel exercises have been developed since 1978 by Zilberger. But the main principle remains the strengthening exercises pelvic
muscles. This
exercise strengthens the pelvic muscles, including the penis and increase
sexual potency capabilities. And
the results were satisfactory.
How to tighten these muscles
mengendorkannya sebanvak 10 times and 10 times per day, within one to one and a
half months, you will automatically be used to delay ejaculation so that orgasm
can be experienced repeatedly.
Premature
Ejaculation, Recognize & End
Be aware that premature
ejaculation is a sexual dysfunction, not a natural thing. However, not many men who realized that he was experiencing
premature ejaculation. In
addition to not realize, there are many who do not want to admit.
Facing the many men who suffer
from premature ejaculation, there are certain parties who offer healing when
they do not understand correctly what and how premature ejaculation.
Though the origin of known
earlier, premature ejaculation can be cured. But
remember, not a cure to the "smart people" but with treatment to the
doctor. Before the divorce was the only solution, it is better to
consult an expert immediately to end the suffering of premature ejaculation.
Sources:
medicastore.com
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