Every married couple (couples)
must have longed to settle down-stairs life active and harmonious. Bagimanapun, sexual intercourse is a paradise that can be run by
married couples as well as an expression of love couple.
However, do not always go
according to sexual desire. There
are times when husbands exposed to sexual dysfunction problems such as arousal
disorder, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and other.
According to Prof. DR. Dr.. Wimpie Pangkahila, Sp. And,
a physician expert Andrology and Sexology, "sexual health problem that is
often experienced by men is sexual dysfunction and sexually transmitted
diseases. Sexual
dysfunction is often premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. "
Premature ejaculation is very
common. Recent
research shows that 1
out of 3 men who were sexually active (33%) suffer from premature ejaculation . Premature
ejaculation can occur in men of any age although it is more common in young men
with different backgrounds of life.
Sexual dysfunction is a
terrible scourge for men. What
man does not want to say "mighty"? If
the problem is not being addressed can result in disruption of domestic
harmony. Remember
the saying goes, " Sex is not
everything, but without sex, everything will be nothing. "
What is
Premature Ejaculation?
The term premature ejaculation
may not be as well known as erectile dysfunction. Men
who experience ejaku! Early ation still able to achieve an erection and sexual
intercourse although ejaculation occurs too fast.
Prof Wimpie Pangkahila
explained that there are actually some sense espoused by experts about
premature ejaculation, namely:
1.
Limitation of premature ejaculation based on a specific time when
ejaculation occurs.
2.
Premature ejaculation is determined by how many times a man is
able to make a move during intercourse before ejaculation.
3.
Premature ejaculation is defined as the inability to hold
ejaculation until his partner reaches orgasm.
4.
Premature ejaculation is determined by whether or not a man is
able to control ejaculation to occur in accordance with her wishes.
Based on the understanding that
the fourth, it means the inability to control premature ejaculation is
ejaculation that occurs within a short time, which is not in accordance with
her wishes, while the occurrence of ejaculation is ejaculation of semen out of
a sudden that marks the climax for men. The
fourth notion that now seems more acceptable.
Some
Causes of Premature Ejaculation
Premature ejaculation does not
come naturally to him, but there is cause. "There
are psychological causes such as prolonged stress, habits like fast finish when
having sex," said Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila.
Not only that, further Wimpie
Pangkahila Prof who is a professor in the Faculty of Medicine, Udayana
University explains, "There are physical causes insufficiency primarily
inhibits serotonin functioning."
Disruption events that govern
neural control ejaculation is also thought to be the cause of premature
ejaculation. Unfortunately,
men with erectile dysfunction are generally experiencing premature
ejaculation.Conversely, men with premature ejaculation may eventually suffer
from erectile dysfunction.
Lightweight Weighing Premature Ejaculation
Turns premature ejaculation
varies. Premature
ejaculation can be divided into three types based on the level of severity,
namely: mild premature ejaculation, premature ejaculation moderate, and severe
premature ejaculation.
Type
Premature Ejaculation
|
Definition
|
Light
|
Ejaculation occurs after
several short friction.
|
Moderate
|
Ejaculation occurs after the
penis into the vagina.
|
Weight
|
Ejaculation occurs so penis
touching the outer female genitals.
|
Ejaculation occurs before the
penis touches the outer female genitals.
|
Whatever type of premature
ejaculation is experienced by both men and women will feel dissatisfied because
ejaculation occurs in a very short time out of the will so that the sexual
relationship had to end.
impact premature ejaculation
Want to heavy or light, which
would lead to premature ejaculation sexual intercourse took place not in
harmony. On
premature ejaculation, even disharmony due to dissatisfaction on both sides. Men who experience premature ejaculation feel dissatisfied because
the sexual relationship lasted very briefly in spite of himself.
Although able to reach orgasm,
men who experience premature ejaculation also felt very disappointed because it
was not able to give sexual satisfaction to their partners. Especially if their partner expressed disappointment in the form
of reactions to blame the patient.
"Men who experience
premature ejaculation often experience stress, lack confidence, low
self-esteem, and embarrassment to the spouse. Prolonged
erectile dysfunction may occur. Partner
must have been disappointed, dissatisfied, irritated, angry, and finally
experiencing sexual dysfunction such as loss of sexual desire, "said Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila.
Furthermore, the reaction is a
feeling of fear or worry every time they have sex. This feeling will only worsen the situation of premature
ejaculation. If
this situation continues, then in the end he was able to experience erectile
dysfunction.
Women who have experienced
premature ejaculation spouse generally can not reach orgasm because of a sexual
relationship soon ended. Disappointment
that arise can then be turned into annoyance with fear every time they have
sex. Further result could be loss of
sexual desire and dyspareunia (pain during intercourse occurred).
Premature
ejaculation makes Infertile?
Circulating in the community
have the wrong notion that when ejaculation happens too quickly, so that means
sperm can not impregnate disturbed. Barriers
pregnant again a new problem that exacerbated the problems arising from
premature ejaculation.
Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila regrets the wrong myth about premature
ejaculation, "Premature ejaculation is often regarded as fertility
disorders, but it is not so. Premature
ejaculation is considered as a dilute sperm, but it is not clear what was meant
by the term "dilute". "
"Premature ejaculation no
relationship with fertility. So
pregnancy can happen origin sperm into the vagina.But in severe premature ejaculation,
ejaculation occurs outside the vagina, pregnancy does not occur, "said
Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila.
If it turns out men with
premature ejaculation also impaired sperm, it means there are two separate
disorders, not a cause and effect.
Sperm disorders can be caused
by many things, including due to infection in the testicles or other parts of
the reproductive system, testosterone deficiency, dilation of blood vessel
walls around the testicles, and vitamin deficiencies.
How to
overcome premature ejaculation?
First of all it is advised to
do sex therapy. If
sex therapy does not work, then do the second way is using drugs. Cure for premature ejaculation is ejaculation control efficacious
drugs. There are several types of
medications that can control ejaculation.
"It depends on the cause. Because many causes related to serotonin function, it is necessary
to regulate the function of serotonin drugs, said Prof. Wimpie Pangkahila.
Moreover, Prof. Wimpie explains, "Drugs for example, group SSRIs (Selective
Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors). However,
note the side effects, because the drug is not a drug that is sold freely.
"But given the drug has side effects, then its use should be under the
supervision of a physician.
As described above, there are
drugs to control ejaculation. If
premature ejaculation is caused by erection problems, then to improve erectile
function, ejaculation can be slowed. So
useful erectile dysfunction drug that premature ejaculation is caused by
erection problems.
Another is the way of treatment
by surgery to the nerves that control the occurrence of ejaculation. But the third way, although never done in a particular country,
until now it was not popular and not widely used.
"Regarding supplements,
many of which claim to cure premature ejaculation but without the results of
clinical trials," said Prof. Wimpie
Pangkahila. So
if you want to try taking supplements, make sure the supplement has evidence
based on clinical trials that have been done.
"If there are test results
with significant results, it is necessary to analyze what content in it. And must know whether the researcher is competent to do so. If only the supplement only, such as vitamins, may not be able to
cope with premature ejaculation, "said Prof. Wimpie
Pangkahila.
Try Sex
Theraphy
Sex therapy, which is done to
control ejaculation is done with the help of his wife. Basically the way this is done through several steps.
1.
Wife masturbating on husbands who suffer from premature
ejaculation with husband lying supine position, until the husband feels like
orgasm and ejaculation.
2.
When the husband feels like orgasm and ejaculation, the wife made
an emphasis on the penis using the thumb, index and middle fingers, for a few
seconds to prevent the occurrence of ejaculation.
3.
Wife to husband to masturbate erection sufficient, then
immediately put it into the vagina without the wife's position at the top of
the motion. When
her husband was going to ejaculate, the wife immediately lifted her and put
pressure on the penis like on the second step. Further
stimulation with masturbation repeated again, and continued with sexual
intercourse as above.
4.
Performed after a few days doing the above exercise. At this step, the husband was allowed to exert pressure to
maintain erection during sexual intercourse with the wife's position at the
top.
5.
Done when the husband was better able to control ejaculation. At this step a couple can have sexual relations with the side
position. If
this place is to hold ejaculation husband, then sexual intercourse can be done
in the husband's position at the top.
The exercise is expected to be
performed during the 6-12 months after that, and whenever needed. But this way is not always easy to do for several reasons. First, the closure of the man to his wife. Second, the lack of communication and cooperation of husband and
wife in sexual problems. Third,
feeling reluctant or lazy to do the exercises because having to waste time and
considered impractical.
Kegel
Exercises Men Can Also
For those who avoid drugs,
Prof. Wimpie advise against trying to
do Kegel exercises or sex therapy with couples. Gymnastics
or exercises known as Kegel exercises for the pelvic muscles to improve the quality
of sexual intercourse.
Kegel is a pelvic floor muscle
exercises Puboccoccygeus (PC) or Pelvic Floor Muscle which was originally used
for therapy in women who are not able to control the release of urine. PC muscle is called muscle 'sexual' because it supports the
vagina, penis, uterus, rectum, and other related parts of the body such as
sexual function and ejaculation orgasm in both women and men.
To find the location of the PC
muscle, you can stop the urine when you urinate. Try
to stop urinating or three times so that you can determine the position of the
PC muscle.
Kegel exercise is introduced by
Dr.. Arnold Kegel, a gynecologist,
since 1945. This
exercise is a series of movements that serve to train the PC muscle
contractions multiple times in order to increase muscle tone and contraction. This exercise shows new benefits after a minimum of six weeks.
While for men it turns out
Kegel exercises have been developed since 1978 by Zilberger. But the main principle remains the strengthening exercises pelvic
muscles. This
exercise strengthens the pelvic muscles, including the penis and increase
sexual potency capabilities. And
the results were satisfactory.
How to tighten these muscles
mengendorkannya sebanvak 10 times and 10 times per day, within one to one and a
half months, you will automatically be used to delay ejaculation so that orgasm
can be experienced repeatedly.
Premature
Ejaculation, Recognize & End
Be aware that premature
ejaculation is a sexual dysfunction, not a natural thing. However, not many men who realized that he was experiencing
premature ejaculation. In
addition to not realize, there are many who do not want to admit.
Facing the many men who suffer
from premature ejaculation, there are certain parties who offer healing when
they do not understand correctly what and how premature ejaculation.
Though the origin of known
earlier, premature ejaculation can be cured. But
remember, not a cure to the "smart people" but with treatment to the
doctor. Before the divorce was the only solution, it is better to
consult an expert immediately to end the suffering of premature ejaculation.
Sources:
medicastore.com
